I clearly have a big ugh field around this whole topic.
I seem pathologically incapable of being anything but 100% honest, however this is a problem when you're trying to sell yourself in any context, including yes, on dating apps.
I have to set a hard deadline here. The deadline is 2026-08-31.
Until this deadline, I will use the honest profile.
After that, I will ask a friend to make a profile for me that includes all dishonest random shit, even if it makes me dislike myself a little for doing so. Important part here is I will ask someone to make the whole profile so there is zero of my input.
Also, I decided to remove my website link from the profile. Will share it with people after meeting atleast once at minimum. Better feedback loop.
Side note
while I am listing deadlines here, I also have deadlines for a work survey and a value transition survey and another thing I will keep private
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