Was watching some attractive women and visualing them die in my head.
Immediately I realised wait, am I just doing this mental move to create distance from my immediate attraction to them, thereby increasing my perceived status?
(In general society, immediately falling for people is considered low status, pretending not to care that much is considered higher status, and visualising them dying is one way to make this mental move easier in your head, there are many others.)
It is really annoying the extent to which I am aware that everything in dating is about status lol. Or maybe I overdo noticing this, I'm unsure
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